Sextortion and Non-Consensual Intimate Images

The Pattern

Non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII) means sharing, threatening to share, or creating sexual images of someone without their consent. Sextortion means using those images — or the threat of them — to demand money, more images, sex, or silence. Both are weapons. Both are crimes. The term “revenge porn” is misleading — it implies the victim did something to deserve it. They did not.

What it is

NCII includes photos or videos taken without your knowledge, images shared after a relationship ends, AI-generated fake nudes (deepfakes) made from your social media photos, and images obtained by hacking. Sextortion often starts with a romance scam or hacking, then escalates to threats: pay up, send more, or I send these to your family and employer. The Take It Down Act, signed into US federal law in May 2025, criminalizes sharing NCII including AI-generated deepfakes, and requires platforms to remove reported images within a set timeframe.

How it is used against survivors

▌ Shame and silence — the threat of exposure keeps survivors from leaving, reporting, or speaking out ▌ Financial extortion — demands for money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency ▌ Coercion for more content — victims are pulled into a cycle where each payment or image leads to more demands ▌ Reputation destruction — images sent to employers, family, or posted publicly ▌ Retaliation after leaving — an abuser shares images to punish a survivor for ending the relationship

Warning signs

▌ Someone threatens to share intimate images if you do not comply with demands ▌ You receive messages claiming to have hacked your phone or camera ▌ Intimate images you shared privately appear online or are sent to people you know ▌ A stranger claims to have compromising footage from a video call and demands payment ▌ AI-generated nude images of you appear online, made from your social media photos ▌ You are asked to send intimate images as “proof of trust” early in an online relationship

What you can do now

▌ Do not pay — paying rarely stops the extortion. It usually confirms you are a target who will pay again. ▌ Do not send more images — more content gives the extortioner more leverage, not less. ▌ Save evidence — screenshot threats, save URLs where images appear, record usernames and account details. Do not delete the original messages. ▌ Use StopNCII.org — if you are 18 or older, this free tool creates a digital fingerprint (hash) of your image on your device without uploading the image itself. Participating platforms scan for the hash and remove matches. Over 90% removal rate. ▌ Use NCMEC Take It Down — if the images were taken when you were under 18, use takeitdown.ncmec.org. Free, anonymous, hash-based. ▌ Report to the platform — use each platform’s NCII reporting tools. Under the Take It Down Act, covered platforms must remove reported images. ▌ Report non-compliant platforms to the FTC — if a platform fails to remove reported NCII, report them at takeitdown.ftc.gov. ▌ File a police report — NCII and sextortion are crimes under federal law (Take It Down Act) and most state laws. Cyber Civil Rights Initiative maintains a state-by-state law map. ▌ Contact CCRI — the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative operates a crisis helpline and can connect you with legal support. ▌ Do not blame yourself — the crime is the sharing, not the taking or the trusting.

When to get outside help

Sextortion and NCII can cause severe psychological harm. If images of you are being shared or you are being threatened, you do not have to handle this alone. CCRI, RAINN, and the National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you navigate takedown, legal options, and emotional support. If the extortioner is a current or former partner, domestic violence advocates can help with safety planning alongside the digital response.

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